Fitting In by Hauka Aoki and John Olson
Review by Hannah White, Children's Services Senior Library Assistant
“Fitting In” by Haruka Aoki and John Olson is a great introductory story to the concept of self-identity and acceptance for kids of all ages.
The story opens with two circles, in a land of circles, who want to have a child. However, their child is born a square, and Square is taught that pretending to be a circle is the best way to navigate life.
Square never feels comfortable in their “extra” circle pieces, and is relieved to take them off at home in order to be comfortable as a square.
It is during a clumsy moment at the annual circle celebration when Square’s extra circle pieces fall off, and everyone can see that Square is actually a square. But before Square even has a chance to get upset, other circles reveal that they’re actually triangles, stars, and other shapes.
The story closes with a reminder that our differences are what make us special, a beautiful universal message that applies to everyone. I am struck by the final picture of the story. It is a simple image of Square holding their circle parents’ hands, and they are all smiling.
I know that not all 2SLGBTQIA+ people are accepted by their friends and family. It is heartbreaking to think that a child might experience this, but Square’s happy family models the experience that every child should have and that is so important. I also really appreciate how not a single character in this book about anthropomorphized shapes is gendered. Not only does it just not matter (shapes do not have a gender!), it keeps Square as a relatable character for all readers.
This story is made all the more important for the lived experience of the authors, Aoki and Olson, who are both queer-identified and use multiple pronouns.
While the intended audience of “Fitting In” is listed for ages three to eight, the bright colours and bold illustrations would make it a great story to read with babies and toddlers as well. If you’re looking to broach the topic of inclusivity and acceptance with your little ones at home, this book is a great way to start those conversations in a safe and colourful way.